I contacted TE about the mate to this part.
The product diagram for this part shows that it mates with USCAR Interface 999-S-007-2
https://www.te.com/commerce/DocumentDelivery/DDEController?Action=showdoc&DocId=Customer+Drawing1732175B7pdfEnglishENG_CD_1732175_B7.pdf1732175-1
The mating connector is a proprietary connector made for automobile industry.
The only reason the housing for female terminals is available is to make wiring harnesses to hook up to it?
Digikey is not going to be able to source the mate, nor do we have access to the 3D model.