Doctor Goof,
Welcome to the community!
I have also looked into your inquiry. While I was not able to find a solution based upon the information provided, I would like to offer up some suggestions that may help us find a solution that can work for you.
Mating Connector
Firstly, the connector you are trying to replace mates to a connector that is custom molded into the motor design. Even though it is custom, I do see some key features however that would lead us in the right direction if some questions were to be answered.
I see square pins. What are the dimensions? L X W X H
Also, what is the pitch of these terminals (click here for help understanding pitch)
Destroyed connector
Looking at the connector that has been destroyed; would you be able to get some better images? The one provided is a bit blurry, the angle is not great, and on that point, multiple angles would give us better understanding of what we are looking at.
Again, what are the dimensions? L x W x H
Additional information
Is it most important that replacement connector be exactly the correct item? Could it be that it is more important that the connection works? The most troublesome thing about rectangular connectors like this is the number of variations, however, there are many that are only slightly different than others. we may be able to find something that will fit even if it isn’t perfect.
Here are examples of things that could potentially be close.
Click here to see some possible Housing options.
Click here to see some possible Header options.
EDIT:
I had another thought. When looking at the destroyed connector, I noticed a hole in the center between the two pins. I would like to know if it is possible that this is a 3 position connector only using two of its terminals. I think the center pin is missing.
Here are examples of things that could potentially be close.
Click here to see some possible Housing options.
Click here to see some possible Header options.
I hope this helps!