It appears to be similar to a 3 pin Tamiya connector but im having no luck finding it. Anyone know what it is?
0039014030 looks like the part number you are searching for.
Contacts are sold separately and are listed near the bottom of the web page for this part.
The pins listed below the part are for 18-24awg wire. the connector im replacing is fixed to 16awg wire. is there pins that fit 16awg or should the 18-24 fit over 16?