This connector I am looking for. What I found so far - The contact looks like it’s made by KOSTAL, PLK 14,5
I did find one vendor that has a MOQ of 400, which is way too many! I only need 6 or so. Might be able to find other people that would buy small quantities also.
The housing I have not had much luck with, got nothing so far. There is also a housing that mates at right angles, which I could possibly use also, but I’ll worry about that if I get anywhere with these first.